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Disney Girls Gone Wild

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Miley Cyrus, Vanessa Hudgens and Jamie Lynn Spears. (Vanity Fair, Chris Pizzello/Associated Press, Lucas Jackson/Reuters

What is up with parents of teens these days? I just don’t understand…. I know the world has changed greatly since we were teens but my goodness are parents just not being “parents” anymore? Are they so interested in their “children” becoming famous and making money? Who is the money for anyhow? The children or them? And at what expense is this costing their children’s lives?

First there was Britney Spears, then, Lindsay Lohan, Vanessa Hudgens and her nude photos scandal and now Demi Lovato, and the funny thing is these were all “Disney children.” The cute, adorable, talented, money making machines who lived up to Disney’s clean image.

Watching each one of these girls lives spiral out of control has been heart wrenching, I just don’t understand to what extent fame is worth the price. These girls will never get back their “childhoods” actually I’m not sure any of them had “normal” childhoods.

I’m a mom of two young ladies as most of you know one who is 18 and disabled so she never had the opportunity that these girls did. But my oldest was in the “pageant world” for most of her teen years and it had its wonderful and exciting moments but there were also a lot of some not so pleasant moments; so having just a taste of raising a “celeb teen” is an experience I can say I have “touched on”. But I was always the “mom.” There were plenty of times I said “NO.” Just ask Sarah, I’m sure she’d be happy to share a number of these times with you. LOL

Anyhow, I don’t want to seem “preachy” just want to let mom’s know it is important to be the “mom” first and friend second. Always be there for your child to guide them the best that you can. Teach them right from wrong at an early age… And if you do let your child get a “taste” of the limelight always be there for the ups of fame to keep them grounded and remind them of the lessons you taught them, as well as the times that they will be down for the rejection to let them know that they are wonderful young ladies just the way they are.

That’s it in this month of “thanks” I’m thankful that my daughter both had experiences in the limelight and came out on the other end as beautiful young ladies! Love you Sarah and Hadley xoxo

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Comments

  1. Michelle Hoad says:

    I agree. My oldest daughter is only eleven, but we are already getting into discussions about appropriate behavior and clothing befitting a young lady. I am VERY lucky that she prefers to be modest. Especially since she has four older brothers who have lots of friends.

  2. Couldn't agree more! It's so sad when you see mom's who act like friends instead of what they were mean't to be (a parent). I think having a friendship is important, but until they are grown, being a parent is even more so. Stopped by from SITS!

  3. I'm so with you on this one Shelley! Great post and great way of putting things! I found you from SITS and I love your blog. I am now following you and it would be so nice if you could share the love back on my blog:)!
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  4. It's definitely sad what fame does to kids… very thought provoking post.
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  5. I can't agree more. I only have sons but even that is challenging as they are bombarded with what culture puts out there as normal or desirable. Thanks for sharing this.

  6. Totally agree – 110%. Its so sad, because its like before 40 they've already wasted their life and there's no more charm left. (not to mention class!) Sometimes being a celebrity isn't "all that" – sometimes (most times) its best for kids to just be kids…ordinary, run-of-the-mill, totally unfamous kids.